{"id":432471,"date":"2016-07-29T19:13:41","date_gmt":"2016-07-29T12:13:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/?p=432471"},"modified":"2016-07-30T08:24:28","modified_gmt":"2016-07-30T01:24:28","slug":"swedish-meal-time-333","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/?p=432471","title":{"rendered":"\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e17\u0e28\u0e2a\u0e27\u0e35\u0e40\u0e14\u0e19 \u0e01\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e01\u0e0e\u0e2b\u0e21\u0e32\u0e22\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e49\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e25\u0e32\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e44\u0e1b\u0e40\u0e25\u0e35\u0e49\u0e22\u0e07\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49 480 \u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e40\u0e15\u0e47\u0e21\u0e46 \u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e22\u0e31\u0e07\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e40\u0e07\u0e34\u0e19\u0e40\u0e14\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e19 80%"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0e2a\u0e33\u0e2b\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e25\u0e48\u0e32\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01\u0e46 \u0e22\u0e34\u0e48\u0e07\u0e15\u0e2d\u0e19\u0e40\u0e1b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e40\u0e14\u0e47\u0e01\u0e17\u0e32\u0e23\u0e01\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22\u0e19\u0e31\u0e49\u0e19 \u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e23\u0e31\u0e01\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e2d\u0e1a\u0e2d\u0e38\u0e48\u0e19\u0e08\u0e32\u0e01\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e19\u0e31\u0e49\u0e19\u0e01\u0e47\u0e40\u0e23\u0e35\u0e22\u0e01\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e21\u0e35\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e2a\u0e33\u0e04\u0e31\u0e0d\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e2a\u0e38\u0e14\u0e40\u0e25\u0e22\u0e01\u0e47\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49 \u0e40\u0e1e\u0e37\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e1e\u0e31\u0e12\u0e19\u0e32\u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e14\u0e35\u0e17\u0e31\u0e49\u0e07\u0e17\u0e32\u0e07\u0e14\u0e49\u0e32\u0e19\u0e23\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e01\u0e32\u0e22\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e08\u0e34\u0e15\u0e43\u0e08<\/p>\n<p>\u0e2b\u0e19\u0e36\u0e48\u0e07\u0e43\u0e19\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e17\u0e28\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e2a\u0e33\u0e04\u0e31\u0e0d\u0e40\u0e23\u0e37\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e19\u0e35\u0e49\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e2a\u0e38\u0e14\u0e01\u0e47\u0e04\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e17\u0e28\u0e2a\u0e27\u0e35\u0e40\u0e14\u0e19 \u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e2b\u0e23\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e2a\u0e32\u0e21\u0e32\u0e23\u0e16\u0e25\u0e32\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e44\u0e1b\u0e40\u0e25\u0e35\u0e49\u0e22\u0e07\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e17\u0e31\u0e49\u0e07\u0e2a\u0e34\u0e49\u0e19 480 \u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e40\u0e15\u0e47\u0e21\u0e46 \u0e41\u0e16\u0e21\u0e22\u0e31\u0e07\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e04\u0e48\u0e32\u0e08\u0e49\u0e32\u0e07 80 \u0e40\u0e1b\u0e2d\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e40\u0e0b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e15\u0e4c\u0e02\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e17\u0e33\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e1a\u0e1b\u0e01\u0e15\u0e34\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22!!!<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e14\u0e47\u0e19\u0e04\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e16\u0e49\u0e32\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e48\u0e07\u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e25\u0e32\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e49\u0e40\u0e17\u0e48\u0e32\u0e46 \u0e01\u0e31\u0e19\u0e23\u0e30\u0e2b\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22\u0e25\u0e48\u0e30\u0e01\u0e47 \u0e08\u0e30\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e42\u0e1a\u0e19\u0e31\u0e2a\u0e40\u0e1e\u0e34\u0e48\u0e21\u0e40\u0e15\u0e34\u0e21\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22\u0e25\u0e48\u0e30!!!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Nils \u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e21\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e21\u0e48\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 31 \u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e17\u0e33\u0e2d\u0e32\u0e0a\u0e35\u0e1e\u0e14\u0e35\u0e44\u0e0b\u0e19\u0e4c\u0e40\u0e19\u0e2d\u0e23\u0e4c<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432554\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464.jpg\" alt=\"Nils, 33, Designer\/Illustrator Shared parental leave equally with his child Bibi. Previously on leave with Doris. \u00d2I took parental leave because I was able to. The fact that I\u00d5m paid to be with my child must be a real high point for our civilisation. It\u00d5s love, swearing, laughter. It\u00d5s fantastic. We\u00d5ve come a long way, but we\u00d5ve still got a way to go. We work full time at the same place (in the park), do the same jobs (change nappies) and have the same problems (too many photos on our mobiles). But still we get paid differently for the same work. One day, when our kids go and do their job in the park with their own children, I hope that equality will have made it there too. And that parental leave isn\u00d5t just something slightly suspect that happens in some cold Scandinavian country with a shrinking population.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464-240x240.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464-630x630.jpg 630w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/1-464-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0e41\u0e15\u0e48\u0e16\u0e36\u0e07\u0e08\u0e30\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e2a\u0e34\u0e17\u0e18\u0e34\u0e1e\u0e34\u0e40\u0e28\u0e29\u0e15\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e46 \u0e21\u0e32\u0e01\u0e21\u0e32\u0e22 \u0e01\u0e47\u0e21\u0e35\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e08\u0e33\u0e19\u0e27\u0e19\u0e19\u0e49\u0e2d\u0e22\u0e40\u0e17\u0e48\u0e32\u0e19\u0e31\u0e49\u0e19\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e25\u0e32\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e1a\u0e19\u0e35\u0e49\u0e40\u0e1e\u0e37\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e21\u0e32\u0e14\u0e39\u0e41\u0e25\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01 \u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e40\u0e1e\u0e35\u0e22\u0e07 14 \u0e40\u0e1b\u0e2d\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e40\u0e0b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e15\u0e4c\u0e02\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e17\u0e31\u0e49\u0e07\u0e2b\u0e21\u0e14\u0e43\u0e19\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e17\u0e28\u0e2a\u0e27\u0e35\u0e40\u0e14\u0e19\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e40\u0e25\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e48\u0e07\u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e25\u0e32\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e49\u0e40\u0e17\u0e48\u0e32\u0e01\u0e31\u0e19&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Johan B\u00e4vman \u0e2b\u0e19\u0e36\u0e48\u0e07\u0e43\u0e19\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e21\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e21\u0e48\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e0a\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e20\u0e32\u0e1e \u0e40\u0e01\u0e34\u0e14\u0e41\u0e19\u0e27\u0e04\u0e34\u0e14\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e08\u0e30\u0e08\u0e38\u0e14\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e01\u0e32\u0e22\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e49\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e25\u0e48\u0e32\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e0a\u0e32\u0e27\u0e2a\u0e27\u0e35\u0e40\u0e14\u0e19\u0e43\u0e0a\u0e49\u0e40\u0e27\u0e25\u0e32\u0e01\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01\u0e46 \u0e21\u0e32\u0e01\u0e02\u0e36\u0e49\u0e19 \u0e08\u0e36\u0e07\u0e16\u0e48\u0e32\u0e22\u0e20\u0e32\u0e1e\u0e0a\u0e38\u0e14\u0e19\u0e35\u0e49\u0e2d\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e21\u0e32\u0e25\u0e48\u0e30 \u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e19\u0e35\u0e48\u0e04\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e25\u0e48\u0e32\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e40\u0e02\u0e32\u0e02\u0e2d\u0e16\u0e48\u0e32\u0e22\u0e23\u0e39\u0e1b\u0e21\u0e32\u0e40\u0e01\u0e47\u0e1a\u0e43\u0e19\u0e2d\u0e31\u0e25\u0e1a\u0e31\u0e49\u0e21\u0e20\u0e32\u0e1e\u0e0a\u0e38\u0e14\u0e19\u0e35\u0e49\u0e02\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e40\u0e02\u0e32<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Murat \u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e42\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e41\u0e01\u0e23\u0e21\u0e40\u0e21\u0e2d\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 34 \u0e1b\u0e35<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432555\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2-397.jpg\" alt=\"Murat, 34, Arts Programmer for children and young people On paternity leave with Oskar for eight months, and previously with his daughter Lovea. \u00d2When I took a course in gender psychology, I realised the importance of equal opportunities for our society. I decided not to accept the role I as a father was handed \u00d0 I wanted to be as important to my children as my wife was. If I can\u00d5t be with my kids now, when will I find time to be with them? As a parent it\u00d5s easy to feel intimidated by all the social media feeds of other successful parents. I often feel inadequate as a parent, something I\u00d5m trying to get over right now. It\u00d5s a question of figuring out the limitations of what you can achieve, and learning to live in and enjoy the moment.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"933\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2-397.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2-397-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2-397-525x700.jpg 525w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2-397-696x928.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2-397-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Tomas \u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e04\u0e23\u0e39\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 34 \u0e1b\u0e35\u0e40\u0e0a\u0e48\u0e19\u0e01\u0e31\u0e19<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432556\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/3-375.jpg\" alt=\"Tomas, 34, Teacher Took a year\u00d5s parental leave with his son Sixten. \u00d2Taking parental leave allowed my to reassess my self-image as a father. The things I thought were the most challenging when we started out as parents was the fact that I was always number two in my son\u00d5s eyes. It\u00d5s important for me and for my partner Sofie that Sixten is as happy to come to me as to her when he needs comforting. I think the uneven uptake of parental leave has a lot to do with class. The fact that most paternity leave is taken during the elk-hunting season is a symptom of backwards ideas about masculinity and the meaning of paternity leave for many fathers. I\u00d5m happy to be part of changing those ideas.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"947\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/3-375.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/3-375-177x240.jpg 177w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/3-375-517x700.jpg 517w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/3-375-696x942.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/3-375-310x420.jpg 310w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Jonas \u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e21\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e21\u0e48\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e04\u0e23\u0e39\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 38<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432557\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/4-337.jpg\" alt=\"Jonas, 38, Teacher Took six months\u00d5 parental leave for Olle. Previously took leave for eight months each with Leo and Ruben. \u00d2My relationship with my dad changed when I had children and went on parental leave. Our conversations became deeper and more emotional and less rational, now we talk more about the fun and the challenging sides of having children. The more time I spend with my child, the more I learn to become a better parent. It\u00d5s not something you\u00d5re born with, I don\u00d5t think. Now I\u00d5m starting my third period of parental leave, my everyday routines are different to how they were with my first child. The first time I took leave, I was able to devote all my time to Leo, but now I have to make sure all of my children have a good, stimulating day. The fact that I have to pick them up from daycare and school and drop them off at their various extracurricular activities means that in many ways, Olle, the youngest, has to go along with what the older two want to do.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"933\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/4-337.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/4-337-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/4-337-525x700.jpg 525w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/4-337-696x928.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/4-337-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Patrik \u0e19\u0e31\u0e01\u0e40\u0e28\u0e23\u0e29\u0e10\u0e28\u0e32\u0e2a\u0e15\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 35 \u0e1b\u0e35<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432558\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/5-317.jpg\" alt=\"Patrik, 35, Economist On leave with Eira for eight months. \u00d2When my partner started expressing milk and freezing it in portion-sized packs, I was also able to help with feeding. I\u00d5ll never forget the look our daughter gave me the first timeI fed her. It was really nice for both of us, but it was practical too. I hope it will be possible to swap the word paternity leave for something more gender-neutral. It\u00d5s a question of being a parent, not whether you\u00d5re a man or a woman. We\u00d5re both parents to the same degree, with the same degree of responsibility, regardless of our sex.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"933\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/5-317.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/5-317-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/5-317-525x700.jpg 525w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/5-317-696x928.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/5-317-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Uffe \u0e44\u0e25\u0e1f\u0e4c\u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e14\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 41 \u0e1b\u0e35<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432559\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/6-271.jpg\" alt=\"Uffe, 41, Lifeguard On twelve months\u00d5 parental leave with Lilli. \u00d2Because I took over after just three months, I felt pretty helpless when my partner Mia had to come home from work to breastfeed. When we started to wean Lilli, it got much easier to take responsibility for her. I think the most important thing is getting to decide how you want to organise your parental leave within the family, I don\u00d5t think quotas are the way to go. With Lilli it worked out best for me to be at home while Mia, being self-employed, couldn\u00d5t take time off work. Although parenting is a lifelong project, it\u00d5s exciting that Lilli\u00d5s first word might be \u00d4pappa\u00d5.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"932\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/6-271.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/6-271-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/6-271-526x700.jpg 526w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/6-271-696x927.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/6-271-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Alfred \u0e2a\u0e16\u0e32\u0e1b\u0e19\u0e34\u0e01\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 38<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432560\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-255.jpg\" alt=\"Alfred, 38, Landscape Architect On parental leave with each of his two children, Zack and Mira, for nine months. \u00d2Women generally don\u00d5t get any recognition for staying home and taking care of the children, while we fathers are often praised to the skies if we get involved in household chores. This is probably the result of the fact that historically, the distribution of tasks has been very skewed. I hear from many male baby boomers that they regret not being at home to the same extent many men are today. My paternity leave has meant a lot to me. The kids have become more attached to Dad than to Mum, now it\u00d5s often me who has to go and put them to bed.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"933\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-255.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-255-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-255-525x700.jpg 525w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-255-696x928.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/7-255-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Fredrik \u0e0a\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e44\u0e1f\u0e1f\u0e49\u0e32\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 33 \u0e1b\u0e35<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432562\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/8-224.jpg\" alt=\"Fredrik, 33, Electrician Nine months\u00d5 parental leave with his daughter Majken. \u00d2When I found out I was going to be a dad, I was taken completely by surprise. Majken\u00d5s mum and I weren\u00d5t together, but we decided to live together during our parental leave. We\u00d5re sure it will be the best thing for Majken. It\u00d5s completely impossible to prepare yourself for being a parent. In some ways I felt ready to be a dad \u00d0 I really longed for a child, but at the same time I had no idea what I was getting myself into. I get really irritated when fathers claim they chose not to be at home with their kids on financial grounds. This fantastic opportunity to spend so much time, intensively getting to know your child, that\u00d5s not something you get another chance at. It\u00d5s remarkable that such a large proportion of dads can\u00d5t get by on a bit less money for a while when they\u00d5re on parental leave. Especially if you look at it in the context of their whole working life.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"932\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/8-224.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/8-224-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/8-224-526x700.jpg 526w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/8-224-696x927.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/8-224-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u00a0Sacha \u0e19\u0e31\u0e01\u0e01\u0e32\u0e22\u0e20\u0e32\u0e1e\u0e27\u0e31\u0e22 33 \u0e1b\u0e35<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-432563\" src=\"http:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/9-205.jpg\" alt=\"Sacha, 33, Medical Physicist Shared parental leave for Julian and Noor equally with his wife. \u00d2Everyone should commit equally to parenthood, regardless of gender. I want to see myself as a well-rounded parent and not just slot myself into my parental role for two hours before bedtime. With such little time it\u00d5s hard to form ties to your child. At the same time as it\u00d5s really physically challenging to be with my kids, I also get totally overwhelmed by this indescribably massive feeling of love.\u00d3\" width=\"700\" height=\"933\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/9-205.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/9-205-180x240.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/9-205-525x700.jpg 525w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/9-205-696x928.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.catdumb.com\/old\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/9-205-315x420.jpg 315w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0e19\u0e48\u0e32\u0e2a\u0e19\u0e43\u0e08\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e21\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e19\u0e01\u0e31\u0e19\u0e19\u0e30\u0e40\u0e19\u0e35\u0e48\u0e22 \u0e16\u0e36\u0e07\u0e41\u0e21\u0e49\u0e08\u0e30\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e25\u0e32\u0e40\u0e15\u0e47\u0e21\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48 \u0e41\u0e16\u0e21\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e04\u0e48\u0e32\u0e15\u0e2d\u0e1a\u0e41\u0e17\u0e19 80 \u0e40\u0e1b\u0e2d\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e40\u0e0b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e15\u0e4c\u0e02\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e1b\u0e01\u0e15\u0e34\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e47\u0e22\u0e31\u0e07\u0e40\u0e25\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e08\u0e30\u0e17\u0e33\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e15\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e31\u0e19\u0e0b\u0e30\u0e2a\u0e48\u0e27\u0e19\u0e21\u0e32\u0e01 \u0e2d\u0e32\u0e08\u0e40\u0e1e\u0e23\u0e32\u0e30\u0e23\u0e32\u0e22\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e21\u0e32\u0e01\u0e01\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e04\u0e38\u0e13\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e40\u0e25\u0e22\u0e40\u0e25\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e01\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e08\u0e30\u0e17\u0e33\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e1a\u0e19\u0e35\u0e49\u0e01\u0e47\u0e40\u0e1b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e21\u0e32: <a href=\"http:\/\/metro.co.uk\/2016\/07\/27\/this-country-pays-dads-to-take-480-days-paternity-leave-6025442\/\">Metro<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0e2a\u0e33\u0e2b\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e25\u0e48\u0e32\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01\u0e46 \u0e22\u0e34\u0e48\u0e07\u0e15\u0e2d\u0e19\u0e40\u0e1b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e40\u0e14\u0e47\u0e01\u0e17\u0e32\u0e23\u0e01\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22\u0e19\u0e31\u0e49\u0e19 \u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e23\u0e31\u0e01\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e2d\u0e1a\u0e2d\u0e38\u0e48\u0e19\u0e08\u0e32\u0e01\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e19\u0e31\u0e49\u0e19\u0e01\u0e47\u0e40\u0e23\u0e35\u0e22\u0e01\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e21\u0e35\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e2a\u0e33\u0e04\u0e31\u0e0d\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e2a\u0e38\u0e14\u0e40\u0e25\u0e22\u0e01\u0e47\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49 \u0e40\u0e1e\u0e37\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e1e\u0e31\u0e12\u0e19\u0e32\u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e14\u0e35\u0e17\u0e31\u0e49\u0e07\u0e17\u0e32\u0e07\u0e14\u0e49\u0e32\u0e19\u0e23\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e01\u0e32\u0e22\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e08\u0e34\u0e15\u0e43\u0e08 \u0e2b\u0e19\u0e36\u0e48\u0e07\u0e43\u0e19\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e17\u0e28\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e40\u0e2b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e04\u0e27\u0e32\u0e21\u0e2a\u0e33\u0e04\u0e31\u0e0d\u0e40\u0e23\u0e37\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e19\u0e35\u0e49\u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e2a\u0e38\u0e14\u0e01\u0e47\u0e04\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e17\u0e28\u0e2a\u0e27\u0e35\u0e40\u0e14\u0e19 \u0e17\u0e35\u0e48\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e2b\u0e23\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e2a\u0e32\u0e21\u0e32\u0e23\u0e16\u0e25\u0e32\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e44\u0e1b\u0e40\u0e25\u0e35\u0e49\u0e22\u0e07\u0e25\u0e39\u0e01\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e17\u0e31\u0e49\u0e07\u0e2a\u0e34\u0e49\u0e19 480 \u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e40\u0e15\u0e47\u0e21\u0e46 \u0e41\u0e16\u0e21\u0e22\u0e31\u0e07\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e04\u0e48\u0e32\u0e08\u0e49\u0e32\u0e07 80 \u0e40\u0e1b\u0e2d\u0e23\u0e4c\u0e40\u0e0b\u0e47\u0e19\u0e15\u0e4c\u0e02\u0e2d\u0e07\u0e01\u0e32\u0e23\u0e17\u0e33\u0e07\u0e32\u0e19\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e1a\u0e1b\u0e01\u0e15\u0e34\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22!!! \u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e1b\u0e23\u0e30\u0e40\u0e14\u0e47\u0e19\u0e04\u0e37\u0e2d\u0e16\u0e49\u0e32\u0e41\u0e1a\u0e48\u0e07\u0e27\u0e31\u0e19\u0e25\u0e32\u0e43\u0e2b\u0e49\u0e40\u0e17\u0e48\u0e32\u0e46 \u0e01\u0e31\u0e19\u0e23\u0e30\u0e2b\u0e27\u0e48\u0e32\u0e07\u0e1e\u0e48\u0e2d\u0e41\u0e25\u0e30\u0e41\u0e21\u0e48\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22\u0e25\u0e48\u0e30\u0e01\u0e47 \u0e08\u0e30\u0e44\u0e14\u0e49\u0e23\u0e31\u0e1a\u0e42\u0e1a\u0e19\u0e31\u0e2a\u0e40\u0e1e\u0e34\u0e48\u0e21\u0e40\u0e15\u0e34\u0e21\u0e14\u0e49\u0e27\u0e22\u0e25\u0e48\u0e30!!! &nbsp; 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